Anon Comments

So I found out about this site. You can post something to someone specifically without them knowing exactly who is saying what. What you do is enter a code and type whatever. Then that message is sent to their email. No names, just exactly what you think.


So I’ve decided to try something out. I’ve set up a code for myself, and I’m actually interested in seeing exactly what kind of things people will say when there is absolutely no way of having it come back on them.

This is the website. My code is 87346. Feel free to say whatever it is you desire.




New Year, New Things

So there are a ton of new things that I want to do this year, and first on that list is a new layout for the blog. New colors, new layout, new look. Hopefully this isn’t too shitty and it’ll work out, if not, then it’ll get changed eventually enough.


Check back soon for a new rant, and my resolutions post!

2013 in review

The stats helper monkeys prepared a 2013 annual report for this blog.

Here’s an excerpt:

A San Francisco cable car holds 60 people. This blog was viewed about 2,400 times in 2013. If it were a cable car, it would take about 40 trips to carry that many people.

Click here to see the complete report.

I’ll Never Look Into Your Eyes… Again

So guys and dolls, I arrived back into Second Life to a huge surprise… some goodies from Prime! I simply adore the things that come out of Prime’s store, and I can hardly wait to show them all to you. Today is a completely Retro Camping Set. Again the photos in this post are completely unedited. We set up camp within the walls of the garden of the castle, just James, me, and the horses… and apparently a few skeletons. The complete set seen here is 14 prim total. I think that’s awesome too!



The Retro Tent has a total of 6 couple’s animations in it, and they are all just adorable. I had to of course test them all out. I’ve provided you with two example shots of the poses included in the tent. Above is the sleeping pose/animation. Below is a pose called “sound”. I adore it, and it really helps when you get a little freaked out at the skeletons that have now come over the walls.



Of course, even though we’re being overrun by the undead, there is always time to tan. The towel features two animation poses, one on your back and one laying on your stomach. I’ve decided that photo op was just too great to pass up. What do you think??



Of course our horses look on. Calm and cool, as always, and as I seem to be here. Completely relaxed and bored. Though, while there are the killing of the undead, there’s always time to relax. I think I’ll come back to this one after we’ve gotten rid of the bones running around here.



Looks like they’re coming right for us. So I guess that’s all for now, but check back soon, and I’m sure there will be something new for you. One more thing before I go. Remember to stop over at your favorite PRIME store and pick up your Retro Camping Set today!! If you didn’t know about Prime before now. There’s an adult store, main store, and of course marketplace. So what are you waiting for?? GO SHOP!!

So Now You’re the Victim and There’s No Way Out

Well Ladies I have got something awesome for you today, and guys listen up too because this would be an amazing gift! Loordes of London has a new pair of boots out. The Black Tie Crickethowell Boots are just to die for! They are so cute, and they really just have something about them. Yes they are classy, but not too classy… you could wear these ALL day, and yes, I have done just that.


Loordes of London Black Tie Boots


I decided to take a stroll and visit a few friends, these boots sure did keep my feet warm, even if my heart wasn’t too warm anymore. I think my friends enjoyed the boots too, but well I guess they won’t be telling you that any time soon. You’ll just have to get a pair for yourself, and at $70L they’re a steal! So seriously, hop over and pick up yours or give a gift of awesome amazing boots!

I’ve Forgotten if They’re Green or They’re Blue

So I logged into find something in my inventory from Prime. There’s a new spring swing that I just had to tell you about. By the way, all photos are completely non-edited. I haven’t done a thing to them, not even to crop or make all pretty. I just figured today was a normal day. Moving on shall we??


So James decided to help me out with this one, as you can see. I’m really glad he did too. The Spring Swing has 9 couples poses, 9 friend poses, 6 female single poses, and 6 male single poses. Of course, I had to try out everything too! *giggles*


I just really love the swing and how it seemed to just “fit” into the space under our castle. Almost like a little lover’s hideaway. The animations are really well placed, and picked for that matter. There are various places on the swing that you actually sit at. I’ve captured a couple of them in these photos. I think this is one of my favorite couple poses. It just seemed too perfect I guess to pass up. So I took a photo, and just seemed to smile…


This final photo is a pose from the “friends” section, complete with me laying down almost like day dreaming and James sitting there… apparently staring off into space… but at least he’s not staring at my ass right? *giggles* All in all I’d have to say hands down I love the swing. It’s still sitting in the same place under the castle. Our own little hideaway, and I wouldn’t change that one for the world. I’m really excited to show it off, and even to see if anyone just “discovers” it down in the peaceful serenity that we’ve created.


Now just one more thing, a few specifics about this swing. The swing is delivered as a coalesced (also known as soft linked or bundled) object. So when you rez it, make sure you’re in build mode. That way you won’t mess up the schematics of the swing, and it’ll be perfect. You CAN link it all together, but in doing that you’re going to make the entire swing one object. So when you click the menu and make it swing, the whole thing will swing. So just leave it all as a bundled thing, and move it then leave it be. No worries though, the whole thing is copy, so if you mess up, you’ve always still got the swing. Also once you sit on the swing, you’ll get the menu for all the seating options and poses, in that menu you’ll also have the option to turn the swing on and off. The only thing the swing uses AVsitter, so that means the “switch” menu is on the TOP MENU. You’ll have to go back to the top to switch with your partner, but it’s all good. Other than that, you’re golden. Make sure you pick up your swing soon!!

*EDIT* I want to say personally to Reven Rosca, Prim Owner, that I am sorry I didn’t look back at the top menu for the switch button. I will next time be more aware of AVsitter. Thank you so much for understanding, and I hope that I can blog more of Prime’s amazing creations!

A Deep Question, Answered

Hey there guys and dolls… so I’ve been doing a lot of reading lately, and while reading the book “Lean In” I came across a line that has me doing a lot of thinking. “What would you do if you weren’t afraid?” Most of my friends seem to think I’m fearless anymore, that I am completely alright with myself, and that I’ve started to get away from the things that haunt me. I’ve asked a few friends what they would do if they weren’t afraid, and one turned the question back to me. What would I do if I weren’t afraid? It really is a very good question. A question to which I can only answer I’d live life.


If I weren’t afraid I wouldn’t hide myself so damn much. I wouldn’t care what anyone thought of me ever, and I might actually be completely happy. I would be able to step out of this shell that I’ve lived in for so many years. If I weren’t afraid, I would simply live life and smile. I would leave this hell that I’m in right now, go away and never come back, and give her the life that I know she desperately needs… the one that she truly deserves. I would love him, without fear, and know deep within my heart and soul that he knows how much I do love him.


So many times as females, and probably even males, we learn to adapt because of our fears, but we rarely face them. When it is time to stop being afraid? When do we start to live life the way we want to? Starting now, I’m going to do just that… STOP being afraid. There is no going back on it, or letting it fall to the side like so many things do. You have to do this for you, and that’s great, but now I have to do this for me.


I’m a mother, a girlfriend, a lover, a witch, a woman, a submissive, a switch, and god dammit I WILL live. To everyone reading this, if you don’t care, then that’s awesome, and if you do then that’s awesome too. I’m not writing this for you, but I do have a question for you… well a couple of questions I guess.

  1. When is it time to stop being afraid?
  2. What would you do if you weren’t afraid??

I guess that’s all that’s on my mind. I think that’s good for now anyways. I’ll keep you updated no matter if you want it or not. One day has to be the day that starts the rest of your life, why not today?


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